Breaking through the barriers of dementia

A weed is a plant growing where it doesn't belong, so by definition the yellow dandelion is considered a weed. However, I, like you, see a beautiful flower. How we perceptive our world is shaped by our knowledge and lived experiences. The dandelion posses a unique life cycle making it a wonderful metaphor of life by symbolizing resilience and emotional healing. And just like people, their are many types of flowers. The orchid for example can only thrive in the very specific environments, but dandelions have the ability to thrive in diverse environments, 

The crack in the sidewalk suggests the imperfections in ourselves, but also represents a place to flourish, embrace our authenticity and experience growth.  The path of our life's journey has unexpected changes, challenges, and even detours, much like sidewalks. 

The image to the right represents the transformation of the dandelion from a bright yellow flower to a fluffy seed head, dispersing it's seeds for miles, and starting a new life. As the seeds are blown away with no control of where they will land, they represent a freedom of the release and letting go to finding new opportunities.  A popular activity as a child was making a wish while blowing the little seeds and sending it its journey.

Dandelions see no barriers, even pushing its way through the tiniest crack in concrete. It's resourcefulness and deep roots finds the nutrients from the soil, absorbs water, and pushes it's way  through the obstacle. The dandelion has the strength to create beauty in unexpected places.  

Are you a dandelion with the resilience and willingness to break through barriers, even during difficult times, or an orchid requiring specific conditions to flourish? Supporting someone living with dementia presents so many challenges, but having the willingness to stop trying to change the person, and adopt new approaches and change yourself can make all the difference.

I'm Vicky Pitner and I'm a dandelion. However, I began as a sensitive little orchid looking for the perfect environment to grow, but quickly discovered I needed to be a dandelion in order to survive a challenging environment. I discovered new skills and transformed from a surviver to a thriver and now I am able to bounce back from adversity a bit quicker. You don't have to transform from an orchid to a dandelion because both are beautiful flower, and both have needs.

When supporting someone living with dementia and adapting to the overwhelming responsibilities  you may feel you are just trying to survive some days.  But if you will trust me, I can provide emotional support and practical strategies to help you and your loved-one began living a life with more quality.